Just a bit of background on me:

I will soon be 59

Will soon be with the same fantastic woman for 34 years

I have a strong marriage


Selfish! Yes, this is a strong word. Let us spend a few moments thinking about how this is a major red flag when picking a woman to marry.

Marriage is a team effort and if one partner is in competition with the other and only looking out for themselves then they should not be married in the first place. When dating, this is easy to spot. Does she spend your money freely? Does she always want you to buy her expensive clothes or go jewelry shopping? During dating, I believe the man should pay for all the dinners and time together, etc,  but very quickly one can see if they are being taken advantage of.

As a side note, after six years on social media, I’m amazed by the number of people who take advantage of others.  This is not a good sign for the future of humanity.


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