Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema


Do opposites really attract or would someone like-minded be a better choice?

Sex is usually hotter with the non like-minded, as each participant can playfully and intangibly take turns staking their superior point of view on the other’s position.  The problem here is that the “hot” in sex will not last forever.

Picture this, you are a fierce environmentalist and your mate on the other hand does not believe in climate change.  This contrasting point of view will supply steamy conversations which can be very attractive for both of you.

Will in time, a mate’s reversed thinking cause the other to lose respect?

If a person with strong convictions is attractive to both of you, the content of those beliefs should not matter. However, if the attractiveness for any of you is fixed in competing over a passionate argument, there can be a time when the beliefs of one participant can overcome the embellishment brought on by ‘hot’ sex.



This article is part of the Rewind Series 



“I will not make you dependent on me.  My approach is to find alternative options under a circumstance and open new doors into a resolution of old problems. Clear the docket so you can see things from other angles as you absorb other possibilities. In time, after you had conquered your needs, you will be able to replace what does not work, accept what you cannot change, and accomplish what you want.”

Life Coach Carioca Da Gema


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