Don’t Have A Fit, Unless You Can Fake It
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema When in confrontation Steady mind rules Self-control yields positive moves and victory Exhausted the hot temperate opponent…
Handling Life’s Complications
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema The problems we have in life shape the person we became. People with a small amount of…
Strategies During A Dispute
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Your best tool in a conflict is time. In order to create doubt, a wordy opponent will…
Karma & Positioning
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema As we go through life collecting experiences that will build us as individuals are our good and…
Bundled Minds
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Is acting according to one’s beliefs a realistic expectation when living in an open society? Are like…
Up With The First Light
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema I cannot enjoy my warm bed in this freezing early morning Mind takes me to Paths I…
Peace
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema In silence The self is quiet The body rests The mind sails No doubts No expectations Yesterday…
Enthusiasm
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema A few have it Even fewer enjoy watching it Palatable for the ones you see occasionally Tolerated…
Discovering My Own Way
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema The dinner table is the home’s theater. The place where we show our love, start many fights,…
Superficiality, Ignorance & Personal Growth
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema I felt like an idiot a couple decades ago; I was attending a birthday party and in…
Appeasement Or Chutzpah?
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema What is the best way to engage when trying to get someone to buy what you are…
The Knowledge Play On Fear & Anger
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Anger is a result of ongoing fear. We fear what we do not know, the unpredictable aspects…
Focus X Flexibility
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Most of the technological developments aim to make our lives easier, or even longer; while decimating jobs…
Leave It Alone
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Like a steak on the grill that erroneously we keep poking and moving in order to make…
Citizens & Customers | Navigating Small Crisis
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema I had my share fighting city hall, and yes, one can fight city hall and it’s an…
Our Gut, Our Inner Eye
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Our gut is the most powerful natural weapon we have and so many times we take it…
Battles | Engage Or Avoid
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Every encounter in our lives (especially the unpleasant ones) adds knowledge to self. You can dress a…
What Are You Made Of?
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Adversity builds personality. Some of us are strong minded, others cannot sell their way out of a…
Silence Tactics
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Have you ever met someone that speaks so slow it seem like they are having a meal…
Achilles Heel Under The Spotlight
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema After a few decades on this Earth, most of us had the opportunity to weather in and…
Building Blocks | Developing An Individual | Life Is Gray
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Our values allow us to distinguish right from wrong. But as we grow older, and pass the…
How Much Is Your Word Worth?
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Political correctness running American society today resembles a train without brakes; we keep dividing ourselves into smaller…
The Split
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema They were quiet for years No children Barbeque on Sundays She shopped for antiques He talked on…
Returning To Self After A Loss
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema my existence broken glass that does not fit numb floating to uncharted lands looking for solace …
Will The Successful Life Lessons Learned & Used By Past Generations Be Of Any Use For Today’s Youth
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Working for retirement; many people did, others are still trying. Some retirees clipped by the financial crisis…
The Mechanics Of Despair
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Catastrophe barges in Suffering Quickly muzzled by Survival Man’s rescue mode This article is part…
The Wealthy | Society’s Waste Of Opportunity
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Flaunting is part of human nature. People today can publicly share with the world their exotic vacations,…
I Do Not Like Changes
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema In past generations, the changes occurring in our daily lives had a structural component. Bridges and buildings…
Tangibles & Intangibles | The Intricacy Of Marriage | Part #2
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Every marriage is unique, as the function of the institution is to bring together two different minds.…
The Power Within
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema mind plots body executes seasonal harvest life’s tally The mind gives us power that can be…
Thoughts At Dawn
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Mind wanders into unpleasantries Through the window shades Blissful beams of light call a toast to…
“Win At All Cost”
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Society accepts and even reveres ‘the win at all cost’ mentality as being necessary for ones success…
“You Don’t Know Me!” | The Knowledge We Think We Have
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema There are people in our lives that we claim to know, some since childhood, from a long…
Get Angry!
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema We are told to control ourselves and suppress our anger, but too many of these maneuvers can…
Reality | Where Do I Find It?
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Is the reality in our thoughts truer than the ones existing out of our minds? Or is…
Relics From Fought Battles
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema The most important lesson one can learn from battling is to avoid it at any cost. Battles…
Tired Of Trying?
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema It is okay to fail, but one should not keep playing the same note and expect the…
The Pace Of Our Lives
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema “Mr. President, you have a meeting in 6 minutes.” Is every minute of your day accounted for…
Choosing A Mate | Compatibility
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Most people that hope to engage in a real relationship have a goal to find someone compatible. …
The Blame Game & My Head On A Stick
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema “Who did it?” Heads rolling for something gone wrong whether purposely done or not is part of…
Exploiting Memories Of Hard Times
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema “He comes from nothing” We all have heard this phrase multiple times and it is usually accompanied…
Are You Trying To Size Me Up?
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema “What do you do?” Asks the woman sitting next to us, at one of the most trendy restaurants…
Appearances
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Searching through a slew of quotations about appearances and a person’s true nature, you may even find…
Femininity | A Lost Weapon
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Women have fought for their place under the sun since Eve talked Adam into eating an apple.…
Human Nature, Free Will & The Person We Become
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema “People don’t change!” or “People change!” Constantly tussling with our identities, most of us try to…
Measuring Satisfaction | Is Less Worth More?
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema What gives you more satisfaction eating a piece of cake or the whole cake? Taking away the…
Cross-Contamination In The Kitchen
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Your cutting boards and kitchen sink are two of the dirtiest/germiest places/things in your home. Your dish…
Choosing A Mate | Sex With The Opposite Minded
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Do opposites really attract or would someone like-minded be a better choice? Sex is usually hotter with…
Romanticism, Probability & The Intricacy Of Love
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema The idea of a soulmate never resonated with me. The suggestion is romantic, but mathematically a faulty…
Preparedness, What Ifs & Vigilance
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Life flows easily when you are prepared. Being able to foresee what is next and preparing has…
The Yummy Stuff | How To Stay Away
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Whether you are on a diet to lose weight, or aiming for better health by improving your eating…
The Impact Of Physical Contact Among Humans
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema An article about India’s caste system told a story of a house servant. She cooked, cleaned, and…
Can Competition Be A Bad Thing?
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema “I raced out off the birth canal ahead of my twin sister and she has been running…
Daily Lies
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Truth is crucial for our lives to remain real. It is the solid foundation where we built…
Finding The Balance Of Happiness
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Is happiness for everyone? I’m not referring to the right to pursue happiness, but the understanding of…
Orgasm Via Robot | The Sex Toy Of Mass Destruction
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema While so many people around the world are occupied with the issues of homosexuality and same-sex marriage,…
You Owe Me An Apology!
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema We Americans love an apology. If it is owed to us we will ask for it, we…
Time Games
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Like handcuffs, time restrains movement and limits our lives. In vain, one struggles to organize it, relocate,…
What Happened With The Natural Process Of Procreation?
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Under a kerosene lamp, Florence prepares breakfast for her children and her elderly parents while her husband…
Individualism
The Millennial Male Advice Guide to Being a Man By The Hermit Poet Make your own mark in life and you will not have…
The Millennial Male Advice Guide | Lucky
The Millennial Male Advice Guide to Being a Man By The Hermit Poet Do you believe in luck? Yes, there were a few times…
Do Not Compete! Unify! | The Intricacy Of Marriage | Part #1
The Millennial Male Advice Guide to Being a Man By The Hermit Poet Marriage is not only about love, but also about working as…
How To Treat A Woman
The Millennial Male Advice Guide to Being a Man By The Hermit Poet Women are the most beautiful creatures on the planet. Whether you…