Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema

Our values allow us to distinguish right from wrong. But as we grow older, and pass the obey our parents phase, right and wrong grow long legs, and simple decisions turn complex as we experience situations where the black or white mentality just does not cut it. We start to see life gray.

As we develop our adult conscious; personality traits, philosophies, and beliefs, will take over the way we direct our lives. We must adjust our values, sometimes this change will contradict early teachings, but this alteration is needed in order to be an individual.

Life is complicated. The same action you named right in the morning, can under different circumstances be categorized as wrongdoing by the end of the day.

As we get older, and accumulate our own experiences, it gets harder to find the gray in the colorful map that is life.

This article is part of the Rewind Series

“I will not make you dependent on me. My approach is to find alternative options under a circumstance and open new doors into a resolution of old problems. Clear the docket so you can see things from other angles as you absorb other possibilities. In time, after you had conquered your needs, you will be able to replace what does not work, accept what you cannot change, and accomplish what you want.”

Life Coach Carioca Da Gema

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