Daily Escapes | Time Games
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema During your day, there is a time when your body says, “I need a break”. You may feel…
Where Does The “I can’t say NO!” People Rank In Society
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Society has precise expectations, or minefields if you question conventional wisdom. Some of us can navigate well…
Thoughts
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Like liquid on flat surface They run Deep diving into the crater of my memories Moving around…
Treat Me Nice
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Can we be nice to everyone across the board? Or As we waltz around managing our lives’…
Whose Mistake & How Do We Fix it?
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema A wrong chain of actions will result in a mistake that the maker and sometimes others can…
Finding The Balance Of Happiness
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Is happiness for everyone? I’m not referring to the right to pursue happiness, but the understanding of…
The Grocery Shop Dance
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema The kitchen is the heart and soul of a house, as most of the activities happen here.…
The Sleep Conundrum | Time Games
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Seven (hours) is the magical number when it comes to sleep. Growing up or reaching the golden…
Luck, Where To Place It?
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Most of the time our actions will promote foreseeable results. Therefore leading our lives toward the goals…
How To Choose Between Practicality & Style
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Practicality is like WD-40, it keeps life running. But this attitude toward abolishing non-sense sometimes meets other…
Clearing The Docket At 50
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Life goes through a tremendous spin in our first five decades. At fifty without thinking that our…
Learning & Experiencing
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Most aspects of our lives can and will continue to be learned from a book or other…
Go With Your Gut
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Should I really? Our gut; the inner voice with its own notes playing with the balance of…
Don’t Have A Fit, Unless You Can Fake It
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema When in confrontation Steady mind rules Self-control yields positive moves and victory Exhausted the hot temperate opponent…
You Owe Me An Apology!
Written by: Carioca Da Gema We Americans love an apology. If it is owed to us we will ask for it, we will demand, and…
Handling Life’s Complications
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema The problems we have in life shape the person we became. People with a small amount of…
Bundled Minds
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Is acting according with one’s beliefs a realistic expectation when living in an open society? Are like…
Time Games
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Like handcuffs, time restrains movement and limits our lives. In vain, one struggles…
Karma & Positioning
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema As we go through life collecting experiences that will build us as individuals are our good and…
Strategies During A Dispute
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Your best tool in a conflict is time. In order to create doubt, a wordy opponent will…
Peace
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema In silence The self is quiet The body rests The mind sails No doubts No expectations Yesterday…
Enthusiasm
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema A few have it Even fewer enjoy watching it Palatable for the ones you see occasionally Tolerated…
Up With The First Light
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema I cannot enjoy my warm bed in this freezing early morning Mind takes…
Discovering My Own Way
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema The dinner table is the home’s theater. The place where we show…
Superficiality, Ignorance & Personal Growth
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema I felt like an idiot a couple decades ago; I was attending a…
Appeasement Or Chutzpah?
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema What is the best way to engage when trying to get someone to…
The Knowledge Play On Fear & Anger
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Anger is a result of ongoing fear. We fear what we do not…
Focus X Flexibility
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Most of the technological developments aim to make our lives easier, or even…
Leave It Alone
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Like a steak on the grill that erroneously we keep poking and moving…
Citizens & Customers | Navigating Small Crisis
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema I had my share fighting city hall, and yes, one can fight city…
Our Gut, Our Inner Eye
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Our gut is most powerful natural weapon we have and so many times…
Battles | Engage Or Avoid
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Every encounter in our lives (especially the unpleasant ones) adds knowledge to self.…
What Are You Made Of?
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Adversity builds personality. Some of us are strong minded, others cannot sell their…
Silence Tactics
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Have you ever met someone that speaks so slow it seem like they…
I Do Not Like Changes
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema In past generations, the changes occurring in our daily lives had a structural…
Achilles Heel Under The Spotlight
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema After a few decades on this Earth, most of us had the opportunity…
Building Blocks | Developing An Individual | Life’s Gray
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Our values allow us to distinguish right from wrong. But as we grow…
How Much Is Your Word Worth?
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Political correctness running American society today resembles a train without brakes; we keep…
Will The Successful Life Lessons Learned & Used By Past Generations Be Of Any Use For Today’s Youth
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Working for retirement; many people did, others are still trying. Some retirees clipped…
The Split
Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema They were quiet for years No children Barbeque on Sundays She shopped for antiques He talked on…
Tangibles & Intangibles | The Intricacy Of Marriage | Part #2
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Every marriage is unique, as the function of the institution is to bring…
Returning To Self After A Loss
my existence broken glass that does not fit numb floating to uncharted lands looking for solace * Comments from Life Coaching by Carioca Da…
The Power Within
mind plots body executes seasonal harvest life’s tally * Comments from Life Coaching by Carioca Da Gema The mind gives us power that…
Thoughts At Dawn
Mind wanders into unpleasantries Through the window shades Blissful beams of light call a toast to life Simple choice to make Copyright© Edge of…
The Mechanics Of Despair
Catastrophe barges in Suffering Quickly muzzled by Survival Man’s rescue mode Copyright© Edge of Humanity LLC 2020 H I R E A …
Consumed
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Unwinding the Yarn
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Push The Boulder Until It Moves………………. Then Keep Pushing
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New Start
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: Budo Secrets Teachings of Martial Arts Masters John Stevens River “This world’s dust and dirt…
The Jungle
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: KI In Daily Life By: Koichi Tohei “Do not give in to your surroundings. The…
Refresh
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: Tao The Watercourse Way By: Alan Watts With the collaboration of Al Chung- Liang Huang …
Sowing Seeds
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: Mystics and Zen Masters By: Thomas Merton Excerpt “Whatever is cultivated rightly, will surely grow.…
Polishing the Stone
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: Mind Power Secret Strategies for the Martial Arts Achieving power by Understanding the Inner Workings of…
Mettle
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: Samurai Wisdom Lessons From Japan’s Warrior Culture Five Classic Texts On Bushido Translated By: Thomas Cleary…
The Performance
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: The Awakening of Zen By: Daisetz Teitaro Suzuki “Oh! ancient pond! A frog leaps in,…
Chasing Butterflies
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: Shopping For Buddhas By: Jeff Greenwald ” Human desires are endless. It is like the…
The Tornado Inside Our Head
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: When Buddhists Attack The Curious Relationship Between Zen And The Martial Arts By: Jeffery K. Mann…
Floating
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: Tao Te Ching Lao Tzu Zen Teachings on the Taoist Classic Takuan Soho Translated by Thomas…
Away From It All
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: Four Huts Asian Writings on the Simple Life Translated by Burton Watson QUIET DAYS ON MOUNT…
The Many Facets Of Fear
Written by: Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Fear is an emotional natural response. It tells the self that adversity is on the way. We…
Society, Government & The Health Care System In The US
Written by: Life Coach Carioca Da Gema In its infancy, societies are created by collective ideals and wants. Since the caveman, we have done…
Feast On The Moment
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: Zen And Japanese Culture By: Daisetz T. Suzuki “The pine tree lives for a thousand…
Slice and Dice | Just A Bit
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: Budo Mind and Body Training Secrets of the Japanese Martial Arts By: Nicklaus Suino “Perceiving…
Menstrual Cycles | I Do Not Want Them!
Written by: Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Teenage girls maybe taking pharmaceuticals in the effort to minimize the experience of having their periods.…
Long Live The Books | The Disappearing Bookstores
Written by: Life Coach Carioca Da Gema My quiet time in the bookstore, where did it go? In 2004 there were 38,539 bookstores in…
Squeeze The Sponge
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: Tao Of Jeet Kune Do By Bruce Lee ” Sharpen the psychic power of seeing…
Family | The Good & The Bad
Written by: Life Coach Carioca Da Gema The Family We Are Born Into Family can be beneficial or disastrous for one’s well being. Without…
Family | Our Public & Private Lives
Written by: Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Public exposure can make a small problem into a catastrophic one. The reality of our family life…
Family | More Members, More Problems
Written by: Life Coach Carioca Da Gema There are many families known by their tribulations. But are their struggles any different than the ones…
Fear | Lacking By The Youngsters & Considered By The Elders
Written by: Life Coach Carioca Da Gema The neighborhood daredevils gather at the end of the cul-de-sac every evening. Lacking any fear or concern…
Get Angry!
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema We are told to control ourselves and suppress our anger, but too many…
Zazen
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: The Wholehearted Way A Translation of Eihei Dogan’s Bendowa Translated by Shohaku Okumura and Taigen Daniel…
Chasing After The Prize
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: Zen Keys By: Thich Nhat Hanh (Excerpt) ” The giant bird has gone thousands of…
“You Don’t Know Me!” | The Knowledge We Think We Have
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema There are people in our lives that we claim to know, some since…
“Win At All Cost”
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Society accepts and even reveres ‘the win at all cost’ mentality as being…
Reality | Where Do I Find It?
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Is the reality in our thoughts truer than the ones existing out of…
Kindness
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: Eihei Dogen Mystical Realist The Classic Introduction To Dogen’s Life And Teaching By: Hee-Jin Kim (Excerpt)…
Creative Analysis & Keep Going Until Drop
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: Samurai Strategies 42 Martial Secrets From Musashi’s Book Of Five Rings By: Boye Lafayette De Mente…
Slowly Cooking The Soup
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: The Taoist Classics The Collected Translations of Thomas Cleary Volume Two The Book of Balance and…
The Blame Game & My Head On A Stick
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema “Who did it?” Heads rolling for something gone wrong whether purposely done or…
Is It All The Same?
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: The Guiding Light of Lao Tzu By Henry Wei Says Lao Tzu: “Misfortune is what…
Relics From Fought Battles
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema The most important lesson one can learn from battling is to avoid it…
Survival
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: Zen Lessons The Art of Leadership Translated By Thomas Cleary 58. Adaptation Zhantang said: (Excerpt)…
Tired Of Trying?
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema It is okay to fail, but one should not keep playing the same…
Humans | The Fight For Life & The Inevitability Of Death
Written by: Life Coach Carioca Da Gema The only absolute in life, for every living thing on this planet is death. Suicide rates are…
The Pace Of Our Lives
The Life Coaching Series Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema “Mr. President, you have a meeting in 6 minutes.” Is every minute of…
Consideration
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: Not Always So Practicing The True Spirit Of Zen Shunryu Suzuki ” Instead of respecting…
Toxic Wasteland
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: Wandering On The Way Early Taoist Tales And Parables Of Chuang Tzu Translated with an Introduction…
Flat Lake
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: The Essential Teachings Of Zen Master Hakuin (1686-1769) Translated By Norman Waddell “If you want…
TIME | Vanishing Time
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: The 36 Secret Strategies Of The Martial Arts The Classic Chinese Guide for Success in War,…
How Societies (Past & Present) Evoke Mental Illness To Obtain Control
Written by: Life Coach Carioca Da Gema In the race to control its citizens, past societies used the same strategies applied by individuals with…
Fulfillment Is Found Within Oneself
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: Ruling Your World Ancient Strategies For Modern Life By: Sakyong Mipham “Moving through our life with…
Wisdom | A Life Long Search
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: The Undying Lamp of Zen The Testament of Zen Master Torei Translated by Thomas Cleary …
Ride Life’s Encounters
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: How To Raise An Ox Zen Practice as Taught in Master Dogen’s Shobogenzo By Francis Dojun…
Are Humans Reasonable?
Written by: Life Coach Carioca Da Gema ‘Reason’ separates the human race from all other species and yet our lives are flooded with components…
The Role Of Individualism In Government Control
Written by: Life Coach Carioca Da Gema Primitive societies were constructed by people with the same value system and mostly ruled by religious beliefs.…
Lifetime Of Chasing The Sweetness & Tasting The Bitterness
Nibbling On Asian History & Philosophy Series Source: The Zen Teaching Of Huang Po Translated By John Blofeld “Its strength once spent, the…
Freedom | A Summit Too Hard To Reach
Written by: Life Coach Carioca Da Gema The relationship between man and land is very simple. Man will work the land and land will…