Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema


A wrong chain of actions will result in a mistake that the maker and sometimes others can see clearly.  At this point, most of the time more actions will be needed to ratify or accommodate.

Men and women perceive these needed reactions in different ways.


“Women and children can be careless. But not men.”Don Corleone in The Godfather


Women see a mistake as an obstacle, an error that must be corrected. If the blunder is in to stay, females focus on how to quickly rearrange the terrain so as to bring life back into course as soon as possible.

For males the setbacks in life reflect their ability of functioning, it is about them, not about being in a universe that we cannot control.

Perceptively when facing struggles, males must absorb self involvement, whether they are responsible for the trouble or not, before they can see the issue for what it is, while women simplify the essence of the moment in order to keep the flow.



This article is part of the Rewind Series 



“I will not make you dependent on me.  My approach is to find alternative options under a circumstance and open new doors into a resolution of old problems. Clear the docket so you can see things from other angles as you absorb other possibilities. In time, after you had conquered your needs, you will be able to replace what does not work, accept what you cannot change, and accomplish what you want.”

Life Coach Carioca Da Gema


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