Returning To Self After A Loss

 

Written by Life Coach Carioca Da Gema

 

my existence

broken glass

that does not fit

numb

floating to uncharted lands

looking for solace

 

During a life changing event, it is important not to hold on to your emotions as each burst peels a layer that at the end of this painful journey will help you see clearer.

Assert to yourself of whom or what is no longer there. Find within you a place to allocate your loss;  it should not be forgotten but it must be rearranged, taking a side or back stage on the life you have ahead.

Focus all your energy on getting back to self. Make an inventory of your life and decide if you are going to adjust or reset life with a clean slate. Do what feels right! Make self strong for you and others that may depend on you.

Numbness conceals pain, but in the long run pain is universal and will pass or diminish while numbness will develop into other negative ways in which you look at life changing your personality to a lesser you.

 

 

This article is part of the Rewind Series 

 

 

“I will not make you dependent on me.  My approach is to find alternative options under a circumstance and open new doors into a resolution of old problems. Clear the docket so you can see things from other angles as you absorb other possibilities. In time, after you had conquered your needs, you will be able to replace what does not work, accept what you cannot change, and accomplish what you want.”

Life Coach Carioca Da Gema

 

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2 Responses to “Returning To Self After A Loss”

  1. taurusingemini

    We must all get broken, many times, during our lives, so, we can know our own strength, to put ourselves, back together again…

  2. Ng'ong'a

    Hi, pain ought to be expressed and it’s true we all approach expression differently but in the end it’s better to let go than conceal pain. In a way personally, pain got me some place joy didn’t but I don’t regret any of it because I learned to detach quickly and lucky I am wiser now but humble because I haven’t learnt much. I still got a lot to learn from the school of life. Cheers!

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